<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1"?><rss version="1.0"><channel><title>Diary of Dhiman</title><link>http://extremist.rediffiland.com/</link><description>Diary of Dhiman</description><language>en-us</language><item><title>RE: MY LAST POST</title><description><![CDATA[Hi friendz...this post is in reply with ur valuable comments for "My last post". There is no exact reason behind leaving iland. I'm just tired and extremely weird nowadays. Most probably these days r the most critical in my life till date. I'm just trying to keep a balance between the good and the dark side of mine n it seems that the later will win as the call is really hard to avoid. In this circumstance its just impossible for me to keep contact with iland. Nyways friends hv a good life. My apologies if i made u bore. Tata..]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2008 22:32:04 +0530</pubDate><link>http://extremist.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/07/08/RE-MY-LAST-POST.html</link></item><item><title>My Last Blog</title><description><![CDATA[<P>Hi friendz...hope u all r doin well...its my last post as I am leaving the iland.....thanx for all ur comments, supports...</P><BR><P>LOVE U ALL....TATA....TAKE CARE..AND DONT FORGET TO SMILE WHAT SHORTEN THE MILES BETWEEN SOULS...</P>]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 03:19:28 +0530</pubDate><link>http://extremist.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/06/19/My-Last-Blog.html</link></item><item><title></title><description><![CDATA[<P> </P><BR><P> </P><BR><P> </P><BR><P> </P><BR><P> </P><BR><P> </P><BR><P> </P><BR><P> </P><BR><P> </P><BR><P> </P><BR><P>Hi all out there...hope all of u r doin well....</P><BR><P>It seems that many of my ilander friends hv a real strong interest in photograpy...as a learner of this i m posting one of my favourite pic (of course..as per me only). I took this one couple of months ago during my visit to sunderban. Specifications are given below..</P><BR><DIV title="Data stored in an image file about camera settings." style="BORDER-RIGHT: #dededc 1px solid; PADDING-RIGHT: 5px; BORDER-TOP: #dededc 1px solid; PADDING-LEFT: 5px; BACKGROUND: #e7f6fd 0% 50%; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: #dededc 1px solid; PADDING-TOP: 0px; BORDER-BOTTOM: #dededc 1px solid"> </DIV><BR><DIV style="BORDER-RIGHT: #dededc 1px solid; BORDER-TOP: #dededc 1px solid; BORDER-LEFT: #dededc 1px solid; BORDER-BOTTOM: #dededc 1px solid"><BR><TABLE cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0 width="100%" border=0><BR><TBODY class=font-11><BR><TR><BR><TD style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 5px; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px" align=left></TD><BR><TD align=left><BR></TD></TR><BR><TR><BR><TD style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 5px; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px" align=left>Focal Length :</TD><BR><TD align=left><A onmousedown="submitQuery('http://photos.ibibo.com/search/index/exif/everyone/recency/gallery/querystr/3f4f43289d16ed7f2869407af55f51c942-v1/1','6 mm',this);" title="Search for photos with Focal Length 6 mm" href="http://photos.ibibo.com/photos/viewphoto/3f4f43289d16ed7f2869407af55f51c942-v1/2053691#"><FONT color=#0166be>6 mm</FONT></A><BR></TD></TR><BR><TR><BR><TD style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 5px; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px" align=left>Aperture :</TD><BR><TD align=left><A onmousedown="submitQuery('http://photos.ibibo.com/search/index/exif/everyone/recency/gallery/querystr/3f4f43289d16ed7f2869407af55f51c942-v1/1','f/4.0',this);" title="Search for photos with Aperture f/4.0" href="http://photos.ibibo.com/photos/viewphoto/3f4f43289d16ed7f2869407af55f51c942-v1/2053691#"><FONT color=#0166be>f/4.0</FONT></A><BR></TD></TR><BR><TR><BR><TD style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 5px; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px" align=left>Shutter Speed :</TD><BR><TD align=left><A onmousedown="submitQuery('http://photos.ibibo.com/search/index/exif/everyone/recency/gallery/querystr/3f4f43289d16ed7f2869407af55f51c942-v1/1','0.001 s',this);" title="Search for photos with Shutter Speed 0.001 s" href="http://photos.ibibo.com/photos/viewphoto/3f4f43289d16ed7f2869407af55f51c942-v1/2053691#"><FONT color=#0166be>0.001 s (1/2000)</FONT></A><BR></TD></TR></TBODY></TABLE></DIV><BR><P> </P><BR><P>Do gimme ur valued suggestions....take care..</P><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home6/164/fc5d4e713d1b4788e4875e5de57c552b/homep/images/1212007817">]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 02:02:15 +0530</pubDate><link>http://extremist.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/29/nbsp.html</link></item><item><title>Bye Forever..</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><FONT size=4><FONT color=#3366ff><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Trebuchet MS'"><FONT color=#3366ff>I met neha for the first time in mid 2007, she was my first friend on the internet. Then I was in my first job in ites sector, I offered her to come to <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:place w:st="on"><st1:City w:st="on">Calcutta</st1:City></st1:place> for a better treatment. Some things I need to tell u here. She came from a rich background. Her father was a businessman. When she was 21 he died in accident (the incident took place in the end of 2006). Neha's mother was unable to bear the pain and committed suicide. Now there was only neha, her pain, her loneliness. Her new family consisted of her uncle and aunty. She was extremely attached to mom. Death of parents simply changed her world. She discontinued study and confined herself in a 6 by 8 room. Her room was not in the house where she used to live. It was on the roof of their factory. In the night she used to come in ground floor and access the internet. That was the entire world for her. As I was in a rotational shift, in night shifts, our conversation continues. She wanted to </FONT><FONT color=#3366ff>continue her study again and leave that atmosphere for ever. She was coming back to life. But somehow she couldn't make it happened as destiny has something different planned for her. May her illness became the main barrier. Days went on, we became close to each other. Her family problems appeared in a big shape. Her uncle wanted her to be shifted in their house. But she just wanted to keep distance from that place. Now I am thinking of that 3 or 4 hours spent with her per day on the net. We lived the entire day within that period. She became a part of my life. She became ill for the first time on 3 months back. Though it was a simple fever, no medicines for her and no doctor as well as she didn't inform anyone about it except me. But what I could do sitting 200 kms away? She didn't tell me her address also. I repeatedly told her to come to my place as soon as she gets well. I also offered her some money for better treatment as she strongly refused any sort of help from her new guardians. But she denied that (thanks to the fuckin self respect). Her physical condition was not going well and It was making me crazy. One week back for the first time I came to know that she has cancer. She knew about this since last 2 months. But she kept me unaware. It is literally tough for her to leave the bed even in nights nowadays. But somehow she managed to cross the hurdle. Though I am not </FONT><FONT color=#3366ff>a god believer. But for her I started praying to god. We both were waiting for a little improvement of her condition. She promised that whenever she'll be strong enough to travel some hours, she'll be right at my town. Day before yesterday, Neha stayed for just 20 min. as she was feeling extremely unwell. Last two days were weekend. I don't have her ph. No. as she don't have one. Yesterday I waited for her all the night. Smoked two packs of cigarettes, finished 3 bottles of bear. But there wasn't any buzz from her side. Today morning I received an offline message from her, which is 'bye forever'..</FONT></SPAN></FONT><FONT color=#3366ff><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Trebuchet MS'">. <SPAN style="COLOR: black"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></FONT></FONT></P><BR><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 'Trebuchet MS'"><FONT color=#3366ff>Some times back I saw one of her friends (who's house is near to her) online. She told that today morning the security guard of the factory found neha's body in front of the comp. in ground floor.<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P>]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 00:23:13 +0530</pubDate><link>http://extremist.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/03/11/Bye-Forever.html</link></item><item><title>Moving back</title><description><![CDATA[<P>Hi all, </P><BR><P>finally i'm returning to the previous, changing my blog name from DB to <STRONG>Dhiman</STRONG>..do well, stay well, keep well and keep :) always as they 'shorten the miles between souls"..bye 4 now..</P><BR><P> </P>]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 04 Mar 2008 01:57:27 +0530</pubDate><link>http://extremist.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/03/04/Moving-back.html</link></item><item><title>Change of name</title><description><![CDATA[<P>Hi all out there plz. note that i hv changed my display name from "dhiman bose" to "DB".. </P><BR><P>Wishing U All A Belated Very Very Happy Diwali..</P><BR><P>tata, take care &amp; keep smiling always..</P>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 12 Nov 2007 22:58:43 +0530</pubDate><link>http://extremist.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/11/12/Change-of.html</link></item><item><title>when no1 loves u..</title><description><![CDATA[<P><STRONG><FONT size=5>when no one loves u...</FONT></STRONG></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means looking at the sky in the middle of the night..</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means listening to sad english songs..</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means taking two extra shots of vodka..</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means dreaming of the beautiful girl in ur office if she wants to be introduced with u some day..(and that day never comes..)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means wondering abt the easy falling in love story of ur next door guy..</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means believing firmly that money can buy anything...(even love????????..i mean it!!!!!!)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means having a strong but healthy discussion in office with ur manger to place u in that particular project where a beautiful girl hv joined recently..</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means feeling that u r going to hv a great day if u were in the middle of an autorichshaw with two beautiful girls in ur both side in ur way towards office..(the feeling of touching!!!!girls plz. excuse)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means spending more &amp; more bucks on ur clothings..</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means really spending a hell lot of amount on a girl who never loves u..(but u think that someday she'll!!!!!!!!!!!!)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means giving company to a girl in the time of sadness, distress while she is going to marry one of ur close friends..(i bet)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means showing that u r living a extremely happy life..(but!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means working a hell lot......(still thinking....)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means thinking that u r in love with ur chatting friends..(friends plz. excuse!!!!!!!!!)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means having one more pack of cancer sticks daily..</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means reaching at a particular place on a particular time just to see her..(knowing that she's getting married next month)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means believing that love is actually blind..(i doubt!!)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means crying for ur mom while u r living a separate life..</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means recalling the love of ur family for u..</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means seating alone hours after hours and drinking large shots or rum to ruin the pain..(i doubt!!)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means having the feeling that u r the only one without love..</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means believing in that particular sentence which says "to the world u might be one person but to one particular person u might be the world"..(keep on the search for that particular.........)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means making a call at ur home and disconnet the line before ur mom is on the line..(the damn ego!!)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means thinking that u r living for nothing &amp; u should stop living as early as possible..(i bet)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means walking in the rain as no one can see u crying..(u doubt!!)</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means feeling that u r sitting at nowhere and the world has come to it's end..</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means nothing..</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>But after all..</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><FONT color=#3366ff size=6><EM>It means "L I F E"</EM></FONT></P><BR><P><STRONG><FONT size=5>Take care..</FONT></STRONG></P><BR><P> </P>]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 06 Oct 2007 05:26:31 +0530</pubDate><link>http://extremist.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/10/06/when-no1-loves.html</link></item><item><title>HELP THEM.....</title><description><![CDATA[<FONT face=Verdana size=1> <FONT size=3>Hi, friendz...let me share a story with u all..many of us may heard of it or something similar to this...<BR></FONT></FONT><FONT face=Verdana color=navy size=1><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: Arial"><FONT face="Times New Roman" color=#000000 size=3><BR><FONT face=Verdana> </FONT></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: <BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>"When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?" <BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>The audience was stilled by the query.<BR>The father continued. "I believe, that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes, in the way other people treat that child."Then he told the following story: </FONT><BR><DIV class=Section1><BR><P align=left><FONT face=Verdana size=4>Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked,"Do you think they'll let me play?" Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps. <BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked if Shay could play, not expecting much. The boy looked around for guidance and said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning." <BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>Shay struggled over to the team's bench put on a team shirt with a broad smile and his Father had a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat. <BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible 'cause Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball. <BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing the other team putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least be able to make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher. <BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>The game would now be over, but the pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game. <BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the head of the first baseman, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had Shay ever ran that far but made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled. <BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!" <BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to second base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball, the smallest guy on their team, who had a chance to be the hero for his team for the first time. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions and he too intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home. <BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay"<BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>Shay reached third base, the opposing shortstop ran to help him and turned him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run to third" As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams and those watching were on their feet were screaming, "Shay, run home! Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the "grand slam" and won the game for his team. <BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4>That day, said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world. <BR></FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman, serif"><FONT size=4><FONT face=Verdana>Shay didn't make it to another summer and died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his Father so happy and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!</FONT> <BR></FONT></FONT><FONT face="Times New Roman, serif"><BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=4><FONT color=#000000>Many of us see these disabled or autistic children everyday in our way to office, home or somewhere else, we just ignore them, or throw a laugh on their unusual activities.<BR>LET'S STOP THESE and <BR>help them instead of giving some fuckin lectures on the them, giving lectures will reach us nowhere. These children r in only need of love, jointly we can make them feel that they r also valuable part of the society, make them smiling by giving a smile.. <BR></FONT><BR>"A SMILE CAN'T REDUCE ONE'S PAIN BUT CAN MAKE THE JOURNEY LESS PAINFULL ONE"</FONT></P></SPAN></FONT></DIV><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home6/164/fc5d4e713d1b4788e4875e5de57c552b/homep/images/1182533876">]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 22 Jun 2007 20:56:18 +0530</pubDate><link>http://extremist.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/06/22/HELP.html</link></item><item><title>with luv</title><description><![CDATA[<P align=center><STRONG>WISH A VERY VERY HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL<BR><BR>LOVE U MOM</STRONG></P><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home6/164/fc5d4e713d1b4788e4875e5de57c552b/homep/images/1178901756">]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 11 May 2007 22:11:21 +0530</pubDate><link>http://extremist.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/05/11/with.html</link></item><item><title>HI ALL</title><description><![CDATA[<H3 align=center><FONT size=5>HI ALL...........<BR>WISH U A VERY VERY HAPPY <BR><FONT color=#8080ff>"BENGALI NEW YEAR"</FONT><BR><FONT face="Trebuchet MS" color=#5c5c5c><EM>....NJOY....</EM></FONT></FONT></H3>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2007 20:29:17 +0530</pubDate><link>http://extremist.rediffiland.com/blogs/2007/04/16/HI.html</link></item></channel></rss>